In the Ten Stages we begin to understand that we now have gained the power to recharge our lives

In the Ten Stages we begin to understand that we now have gained the power to recharge our lives whilst stop being dependent on substances or other people. Which has in the past acted as an act of escape into unreality
of dissociation. 

We have constructed for our self an illusion a constant unremitting search for a quick fix that robs us of both our self-esteem and security. At this time we start to acknowledge a rebirth that their does exist a truer self within that can heal and regain control of our lives, and that this is the reason – coupled with all of our unresolved childhood traumas!– that our lives has become so disturbed and dysfunctional. What are these childhood traumas and where do they originate every-time a child has been disrespected regardless of the reason. Every-time we disrespect a child that’s abuse. It’s not difficult to understand we can all relate to it and we all need to acknowledge it.

We understand when we communicate with the child within that at the core of our problems are all the traumas we experienced as a child. We acknowledge, and that’s why we come to the stages. When the child within can accept that when we can find a solution for the unresolved trauma of childhood coping strategies then the symptoms will start to become manageable and quickly loose power over our lives. All our dysfunctions will start to normalise instead of remaining constantly in the DRAMA of dissociation. This is a very fragile and delicate operation, which requires truth trust and consent to be manifested to the satisfaction of the child within us.

The Stages seek to help search for our version of the "Truth" and our truth when found, accepted will set us free from escapism/dissociation and we learn that for us there is only one truth. This one truth is based on our daily reality. Reality is what is, whether we see it or not. Although truth is not subjective, our perspectives on truth can be subjective. Until a person becomes enlightened to realised truth– and can see full truth of his life and history – his vision of truth will be partially distorted. He will believe things to be true that are false. His knowledge of cause and effect will be limited. He will lie to himself and be deluded.

Unresolved traumas block our vision from finding our truth. When we cannot resolve our traumas of childhood we are prevented from facing what has happened to us when we were at our most vulnerable.

We are forced to deny the painful and troubling reality surrounding our experiences, and until these experiences burst through our denial they will clouds our vision of which we are and what our rightful place in the world is.

The true self the core of whom each of us lives resplendent in our truth. It is connected to truth, and sees it clearly. When we reconnect with our true self and align with it in the full light of consciousness, we come to instantly recognise our own personal truth which becomes a liberating peaceful force working at all times for our benefit, a whole and complete experience at this time a great weight lifts from us and for the first time we feel free. Our conflicts are starting to resolve themselves with the help of the guides on the study course and the introduction to our deeply buried intuitive voice.