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Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical to helping the mind to readjust itself.

We have found out through our own experience as we become enlightened about the effects of childhood abuse and gaining contact with our child within

Are you ready to take a quantum leap of faith back into childhood ?

THE DAILY PRACTICE IN THE TEN STAGES and the child within.

Just by making contact with the child within and that their is an attempt to make an empathetic listening environment that starts the process of building a new recovered self

“live-and-let-live” philosophy -- one of “being with,” not “doing to.”

The signposts of sublimated grief both in divorce which mirrors the problems of the child within is persistent, intense yearning, longing, and sadness

Nothing is remotely like THE TEN STAGES or promises so much

We become assured that within our being is the fundamental essence of ourselves

We then always have to involve our primary repetition compulsion. We compulsively replicate our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them.

When we become tuned in emotionally to child withins feelings, and learn to validate our child withins perceptions

Abuse and disrespect are inflicted on us as children almost ubiquitously on subtle, chronic levels by those with the greatest emotional power to mould them

Those of us who nurture our truth are imbued with enormous power: the power to see, the power to know, the power to differentiate, the power to reflect, the power to choose, the power to speak the truth, and ultimately the power to grow.

Grieving. This is the stage of purposeful struggling. Here we unearth the truth of our past, which allows the eruption of the of our buried traumas.

Here, having healed our wounds, we share freely of our gifts, because now our gifts are accessible.

A dissociative mind impairs the normal state of awareness and limits or alters one’s sense of identity, memory or consciousness

When we hear messages in the ten stages we become shocked, defensive

Welcome to the living room an experience without chaos and drama: To begin to understand dissociation is to understand the confidence tricks of a soporific society

We who have joined the mass ranks of the Dissociated flee intense emotions that spark the trigger of old traumatic wounds

Sometimes we are left struggling with an immense trauma that does not bear memory.

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The Ten Stages resonates strongly with us, and as we read it we feel a tingling sensation in our gut and a chill going down my spine.

With each demon we conquer in our recovery we take a further step into the ten stages

Those parts of us with the capacity to face our terrors enter the tenth stage: grieving.

When parts of us lose the contest with the shadow self in the ten stages we evolve into conflict with ourselves

Dissociation mimics enlightenment.

We believe that the world is orderly and stable as children