Dissociation mimics enlightenment.

Dissociationalists begin a healing process of ten stages on life’s journey diving straight away into a contest Stage. This is a stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval by our parents. The parts of us that are winning the contest stop our journey before it has even begun. 

Here we deny our deepest traumas so intensely that we fool even ourselves into believing they never happened – and that we are already healed. It is for this reason that dissociation mimics enlightenment. 

Here we idealise the parents, which allows us full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of our past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to.

We remain happily distant from the misery lurking in our guts.